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One thing bugs the shit out of me is the conventional wisdom that two-person opposite-sex biological parents represent the best environment for raising children. David Brooks raised the old chestnut again in his wacky piece about the decline in opportunities for the lower classes:

A long series of cultural, economic and social trends have merged to create this sad state of affairs. Traditional social norms were abandoned, meaning more children are born out of wedlock. Their single parents simply have less time and resources to prepare them for a more competitive world.

First, this may be true and it may not be. Research has been inconclusive, and difficult to extricate from simple socioeconomic trends. Additionally, some research has shown that high-conflict marriages are as bad if not worse than single-parent households, and that stability may be a better indicator than number of parents.

Second, even assuming the argument is correct and two parents are better than one, why wouldn’t three parents or four parents be better than two? As California prepares to address this with possible legislation to open the door to more greater-than-two-parent households, it’s not surprising that the usual suspects have crawled out to voice their opposition:

“This bill is a Trojan horse for the same-sex-marriage agenda,” Peter Sprigg, a senior fellow at the Family Research Council, said.

“Advocates for same-sex marriage are very interested in separating parentage and marriage from biological parentage, because that’s the one thing same-sex couples can never achieve,” he added.

I mean, sure, but part of the core conservative argument against same-sex marriage is that two-biological-parent households are better than two-nonbiological-parent households. Why wouldn’t the introduction of more adults, including the biological parents not be better? In fact, we have been doing this for some time, with villages, tribes, and relatives often taking on the responsibility of childcare. Like, oh, I don’t know, this family.

If stability is the goal, why not include as many stable adults as we can find?

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William Saletan atSlate always has these big pseudo-scientific questions that he thinks are deeply thought-provoking but are actually pretty schmeh.

For example, he has a long-standing (and probably wrong) hypothesis about race-linked intelligence. (I have previously noted the goofiness of this “scientific” discovery here.)

Now Slate has two stories about a study finding that children of gay parents at a time when being gay and having children was/is maligned can be stressful and difficult. That’s pretty understandable. Saletan’s take is probably more line with mine in that he thinks it still proves gay marriage is a good outcome (two parents, loving household, financial support, etc.). Still, he takes the study as methodologically sound (some criticisms here).

That said, let’s presume, for the sake of argument, that the study is right and two same-sex parents are actually in fact worse for the child than two opposite-parent biological parents. So what? Lots of children are raised in households without two opposite-sex biological parents; couldn’t a two-parent same-sex household still be better than, say, single parents? Couldn’t some alternate arrangement (let’s say, oh I don’t know, three parents in a household, or a two-parent biological household with grandparents in the home to provide childcare) provide even better results than the two-parent biological household? Should the government or society encourage such behaviors? Maybe, but maybe not. Attacking the “worst” child-rearing environments probably yields the most returns for society; certainly two-parent same-sex households are better than, say, institutional housing or constantly shifting foster care. Since there is high demand for same-sex households to have children, maybe we should be encouraging lots of adoption by any combination of two-parent households.

My point is that much like any presumed difference in intelligence between races (which, as I’ve noted, is probably wrong on its face anyways), the difference between a two-parent same-sex financially-supported household and a two-parent opposite-sex financially-supported household is probably so marginal that the policy implications are nil compared to the differences between a two-parent household and a no-parent household, or a two-parent household and an institutional care facility, or the difference between a poor family and a rich family.

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As Linus noted, the 9th Circuit upheld the lower court ruling that Prop 8 was unconstitutional. Dahlia Lithwick has a good piece here about how narrow the ruling is (in short, the judgment only holds that Prop 8 in particular includes animus towards gays because it was removing a right that had already been granted by California’s Supreme Court in the Marriage Cases). That particular set of facts has no analogy anywhere else and thus the ruling would be limited to California.

What Lithwick doesn’t mention is that there may be a long game that the 9th Circuit is playing here. Let’s say that at the Supreme Court, the Court finds that the 9th Circuit’s reasoning is wrong. In the meantime, more states will be passing same-sex marriage laws (Washington, maybe Maine, maybe Maryland, maybe Illinois, maybe Rhode Island). Then, the case goes back to the 9th Circuit on remand. The court of appeals still needs to schedule arguments, etc., etc. More time passes; more social norms change. Then, the 9th Circuit adopts a broader constitutional tone, more in keeping with the original Judge Walker lower court opinion. Then the case goes back to the Supreme Court. In the ensuing period, same sex marriage has become essentially normal (and may even become moot if California passes anti Prop 8).

My point is that same-sex marriage will be here to stay in California for at least some time. Even the social conservatives on the Supreme Court will probably be wary to overturn the 9th Circuit in a way that again revokes a right to same-sex marriage in California for the second time.

Court opinions matter in the short term, but in the long term, it’s all about values changes, and that’s the fight that the same-sex marriage advocates are winning. (Consider the polling on interracial marriage, which was way worse when Loving v. Virginia was passed in 1967.)

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So says the U.S. appeals court. It’s good news, but it’s tempered. Now it is certain to be appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court, and for that reason same-sex unions in California will not be allowed immediately. I wonder what my lawyer friend Stendhal thinks about this.

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Bending towards justice

Obviously I was quite glad to see the news out of New York this past weekend. Yesterday, I went to the Pride parade in SF for the first time. As you might expect, it was pretty fabulous, with its fair share of naked men, costumes, music, and glitter. But overall it was a much more stately affair than I expected.

I liked seeing many members of the SFPD walking down Market Street, hand-in-hand with their same sex partners. I liked the message that the very people who enforce our laws – laws that historically have been vehemently anti-gay – are themselves populated with gay people. They always have been, and so they will continue to be. I liked seeing a group of veterans marching. Gays have fought and died to protect their country, a country that has not always lived up to its ideals in protecting its citizens as equal under the law. I liked seeing almost every religious group you can imagine – from orthodox Jews to Lutherans and many more – marching in support of LGBT people. There are plenty of deeply religious people who still live up to central teachings of virtually every world religion to love one another.

When gays achieve political victories it makes me happy, and when they suffer defeats – as with California’s Prop 8 – it disappoints me. But neither event makes me that excessively happy or disappointed. Because I’ve seen this story before, and I know how it ends. From wealthy men to those who didn’t own land, from men to women, from whites to blacks, and now from straights to gays; the march towards the expansion of rights in the U.S. is unidirectional. Each day old people – who massively oppose gay marriage – are dying. And each day younger people, who overwhelmingly support gay marriage, are turning 18 and will vote in the next election for the very first time. And in the meantime, more and more people in between are changing their minds. As of April 2011, self-identified Democrats support gay marriage 64-35. Obama’s cynical and pandering opposition to gay marriage is a disappointing failure of leadership, but by 2016 the Democratic nominee for President will probably not be able to win the nomination without publicly supporting gay marriage any more than s/he would without supporting other key Democratic platforms like a woman’s ability to get an abortion. Or, as the Onion puts it:

DECATUR, IL, THE YEAR 2083—According to students in Mr. Bernard’s fourth-period U.S. history class, it’s “really pathetic” how long it took for early-21st-century Americans to finally legalize gay marriage. The classroom of 15-year-olds at MacArthur High School—all of whom were born in the late 2060s and grew up never questioning the obvious fact that homosexual couples deserve the right to get married—were reportedly “amazed” to learn in their Modern U.S. History: 2081 Edition textbooks that as late as the 2020s, gays and lesbians actually had to fight for the constitutional right to wed.

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Here is a nice graphic of progress I was looking for. The elimination of the red corresponds to the Lawrence v. Texas decision. The spike and then dropoff of green is due to California’s legalization and subsequent removal of rights.

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The number of long-lasting marriages has gone up, and fewer people are getting divorced.

So, yeah, gay marriage is clearly destroying the institution of marriage.

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These statutes also deprive the Lovings of liberty without due process of law in violation of the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment. The freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men.

Marriage is one of the “basic civil rights of man,” fundamental to our very existence and survival.  — Loving v. Virginia (1967)

Linus mentioned Loving v. Virginia in his post about marriage equality, but I think it’s important to remember exactly what this remarkable case shows us about the power and importance of American jurisprudence. Read the words of Warren’s close of Loving‘s majority opinion again. The Warren Court’s opinion of the essentiality of marriage as a fundamental human right stands as the most stark statement of the place marriage holds in our culture, sometimes to our detriment. It is also a statement of what is right in the face of what is popular, an often-difficult distinction to make. As I noted in my comment on Linus’ post, at the time of the ruling, 73% of Americans disapproved of interracial marriage, and that number would remain over 50% until fully 15 years after the ruling. (Keep in mind that this is much higher disapproval than current disapproval ratings of same-sex marriage.)

Nevertheless, reading Loving and the reasoning of the court, it is difficult to see exactly why courts today are unwilling to uphold the ruling as precedent for same-sex marriage. For instance, in the most high-profile case to use Loving, the New York Court of Appeals ruled against the plaintiffs on Hernandez v. Robles, stating:

Plaintiffs have not persuaded us that this long-accepted restriction is a wholly irrational one, based solely on ignorance and prejudice against homosexuals. This is the question on which these cases turn. If we were convinced that the restriction plaintiffs attack were founded on nothing but prejudice—if we agreed with plaintiffs that it is comparable to the restriction in Loving v Virginia (388 US 1 [1967]), a prohibition on interracial{**7 NY3d at 361} marriage that was plainly “designed to maintain White Supremacy” (id. at 11)—we would hold it invalid, no matter how long its history. As the dissent points out, a long and shameful history of racism lay behind the kind of statute invalidated in Loving.

It seems likely that one could find a similar legalized hatred and bigotry towards homosexuals had existed in sodomy laws, but that’s beside the point.

The point is that the logic of the Loving case resides in its determination that the Equal Protection clause of the Fourteenth Amendment is not fulfilled simply because both whites and non-whites are equally punished under the interracial marriage law. Warren rightly eviscerates this argument:

The State finds support for its “equal application” theory in the decision of the Court in Pace v. Alabama, 106 U.S. 583 (1883). In that case, the Court upheld a conviction under an Alabama statute forbidding adultery or fornication between a white person and a Negro which imposed a greater penalty than that of a statute proscribing similar conduct by members of the same race. The Court reasoned that the statute could not be said to discriminate against Negroes because the punishment for each participant in the offense was the same. However, as recently as the 1964 Term, in rejecting the reasoning of that case, we stated “Pace represents a limited view of the Equal Protection Clause which has not withstood analysis in the subsequent decisions of this Court.” As we there demonstrated, the Equal Protection Clause requires the consideration of whether the classifications drawn by any statute constitute an arbitrary and invidious discrimination.[emphasis mine]

If one needed proof of the arbitrary and invidious discrimination present in the constitutional amendments to ban marriage equality, one need look no further than the backwards referenda being pushed throughout the states targeting same-sex couples.

If it is not eminently clear that the specific prohibition of same-sex marriage constitutes anything other than “arbitrary and invidious discrimination,” I don’t know what does. If marriage, one of the “basic rights of man,” is denied to a specific group of individuals, the most basic tenet of Loving has been thrown out the window:

To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes, classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State’s citizens of liberty without due process of law. The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious racial discriminations. Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual, and cannot be infringed by the State.

Perhaps the most remarkable element of this particular decision, however, is the vote. It was unanimous. All nine Justices voted in favor of the plaintiffs in Loving. Even Hugo Black, a Southern Democrat who couldn’t stomach Tinker v. Des Moines, ruled in favor of the plaintiffs.

One wonders whether the justices today would have the fortitude to do the same. I doubt it.

Loving stands as a testament to the best that American legal thought has to offer — a reminder that although our country has not always governed and legislated by the ideals laid out in its foundational documents, we do try our best to correct the errors of our ways. I hope it is used as precedent in a new case of marriage equality soon.

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Ok, I just lied. I said I didn’t care about the elections tonight, but what I meant is that I didn’t care about the races for governor of NJ or VA, or NYC mayor, or NYC-23 Rep. But I do care about the gay marriage ballot issue in Maine. Before tonight, never before had any popular referendum on gay marriage benefitted gays and lesbians. After tonight, that will still be true. While it’s not completely over, results here look as though gay marriage will lose by a 52-48 vote, echoing the same percentage that we had in California a year ago. And once again, I am frustrated that basic civil rights are decided by popular vote, that once again, the majority has decided to oppress a minority. A lot of people think it would be better for gay marriage to win by popular vote. Or, if not by popular vote, then by passing state laws. What people mean when they say this is they don’t want “activist judges” passing down edicts that will apply to the whole nation. But so what? As I’ve said before, “activist judge” is just an empty phrase used by people whenver they don’t like the outcome of a court case. When the Supreme Court outlawed bans on interracial marriage in the 1967 case Loving v Virginia, there were still laws in 20 states making it illegal. I am sure that in at least some of those states, popular votes would have weighed in to say that interracial marriage should remain illegal. I’m also certain that they whined about “activist judges” back then, too. The march of civil rights is unidirectional, even despite its setbacks. I know gay marriage is going to win over time, but I’ve basically decided that I would prefer to see it win by a US Supreme Court decision, and now. That case just might be Perry v Schwarzenegger, which is being argued by Ted Olsen and David Boies, who in Bush v Gore represented Bush and Gore, respectively.

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This video has been floating around on the web, and it strikes the right tone between sincerity and sentimentality –  a pitch-perfect response to the demographic that most strongly opposes gay marriage (older, whiter folks).

It also, however, points out something about the way we revise history. We did not fight World War Two to make it OK for gays to marry; in fact, if that were the reason, I doubt we would have fought it at all. America may not have fought for marriage equality, but this man did. In some sense, that is the most American thing of all.

Consider the progressive revisionism of his statement. As Lincoln said, our nation is dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal, even if that dedication falters and stumbles. I can think of few nations on earth who have gone through the effort that America has to repair its past mistakes. Rome did not apologize for executing Christ, even after the Empire became Christian, nor would the Chinese government today ever apologize for the crimes of the Cultural Revolution or the Great Leap Forward. America, for all its mistakes, tries to make its amends. Is it too little, too late? Almost certainly. One need hardly catalogue the long historical list of American sins.

But, the idea of the American experiment — a nation founded by equality under the law, and always allowing itself to move closer to that goal — remains a powerful and important one. It may be among the few values that Americans have left to universally admire.

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Dick Cheney supports gay marriage and Barack Obama opposes it. Chew on that one.

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